Family Co-Housing · Maryland · Proposal

The Roots & Branches
Community Proposal

Rural co-housing is a model of intentional community living in which several households — typically family members or close friends — purchase a shared parcel of land and build separate, private homes on it together. Unlike traditional suburban living, each household owns or has exclusive use of their own dwelling while sharing the land, infrastructure costs, and the day-to-day rhythms of life. It combines the privacy of independent homeownership with the deep social fabric of an extended family compound. For families who want to raise children together, care for aging relatives, and build something lasting without the isolation of modern life, rural co-housing offers one of the most powerful and financially practical paths forward. See an example of co-housing in action →

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Core households
9
Core residents
3+
Target acres
~$254K
Est. per household
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Our Families
The three core households of the Roots & Branches Community

This community is built around one extended family network. Three core households form the foundation of Roots & Branches — two larger families and the matriarch at the center of it all. Two additional households represent aspirational expansions we hold with hope, each detailed below.

Household 1 · 5 members
The Clermont-Martin-Thornton Household
Alex Clermont
Chantl Martin
Kira Thornton
Kenny Clermont
Kameron Clermont
Household 2 · 4 members
The Ormand-Clermont Household
Jason Ormand
Stacey Clermont-Ormand
Neil Ormand
Sonya Ormand
Household 3 · 1 member · Matriarch
Evelyne Clermont
Evelyne Clermont
Aspirational · Optional Household 4
Geraldine Jabouin

Geraldine is Alex and Stacey's first cousin and a deeply loved member of the family. She manages her health with consistency and that is exactly what co-housing can quietly support. A stable home environment, familiar faces, and the gentle rhythm of daily community life are among the most beneficial things for people who thrive on structure and connection. She would have her own home, her own space, and her own routine — with family close by rather than far away.

Fully independent household Stability through proximity
Aspirational · Optional Household 5
Joseph "Jr" Elie & Marilyn Elie

Jr is Alex and Stacey's older brother. He values family bonds and the idea of something built together. He also values his freedom, his lifestyle, and the ability to come and go on his own terms. Marilyn brings warmth and a strong social energy to the picture.

Jr is unlikely to join. His lifestyle and preference for independence make a full commitment a stretch. But that doesn't close the door. The LLC structure allows for a household to be added after the initial build-out. The community could make a parcel available if Jr ever decides he's ready.

LLC allows future member addition Door remains open
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Land & Location
Where to put down roots · Target budget under $100,000

Maryland is an ideal fit for this community. It is reliably Democratic at the state level, has a strong legal framework for multi-dwelling rural properties, and has clear pathways for multi-home setups on agricultural and rural residential zoned parcels. The best opportunities for sub-$100K, 3+ acre parcels are in Southern Maryland and the Eastern Shore.

Key 2025 rule: Maryland's Accessory Dwelling Units Act (effective Oct 1, 2025) now requires all charter counties to permit ADUs on single-family lots. Combined with rural Agricultural zoning, this makes it legal to have multiple dwellings on a single rural parcel in most target counties — but the specific county's planning office should always be consulted before any purchase is finalized.
Most Affordable

Charles County

Southern Maryland's most affordable option, with the most land availability under $100K. Ranked #12 statewide for schools — uneven at the district level, but individual schools like Dr. James Craik Elementary rank #1 in the county. School choice transfers are worth pursuing here.

~$75–100K / 3 acres
Example: Available Calvert County Parcel
Area spotlight: North Beach, Calvert County
North Beach, Calvert County spotlight

North Beach is the bayfront town at the northern tip of Calvert County — a short drive from this parcel — with a waterfront boardwalk, local dining, and a tight-knit community feel.

What to search: Use Zillow, LandWatch, or LandSearch filtered to "3+ acres, under $100K" in these counties. Look for parcels zoned Agricultural (AC) or Rural Residential (RUR). Always confirm the lot has passed or can pass a perc test, and verify whether public water and sewer are available; if not, a well and septic system will need to be budgeted (typically $40–60K extra).
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Proximity to Washington, D.C.
Distance · Drive time · Transit alternatives for each county

All three recommended counties are within reasonable commuting range of Washington, D.C. — a meaningful advantage for community members who work in or near the capital. Each county also has at least one viable transit alternative to driving alone, with Maryland Transit Administration (MTA) commuter buses serving all three areas on weekday mornings and evenings.

County Distance to D.C. Drive Time (off-peak) Transit Options
Calvert County North Beach / Chesapeake Beach area ~35–40 miles ~50–65 min
Add 20–30 min during peak hours on MD-4
MTA Commuter Bus Park & Ride Metro Connection

MTA Routes 820 and 830 depart from Park & Ride lots in North Beach and Sunderland, running express into Washington, D.C. on weekday mornings. Buses connect with the Metro system for onward travel into Montgomery County and Northern Virginia. Vanpool and carpool matching also available through Commuter Connections.
Queen Anne's County Centreville / Kent Island area ~55–65 miles ~60–80 min
Bay Bridge can add significant time during peak summer weekends
MTA Commuter Bus Park & Ride CharmPass App

MTA operates four routes Monday–Friday from Kent Island to Baltimore or Washington, D.C. Free parking at the Kent Island Park & Ride (Exit 41 off US-50) and Stevensville Park & Ride. Fares purchasable via the CharmPass smartphone app. Best suited for members who work in D.C. 3–4 days/week rather than daily.
Charles County Waldorf / La Plata area ~25–35 miles ~40–55 min
US-301 and MD-5 are the primary routes; peak congestion is moderate
MTA Commuter Bus Park & Ride Vanpool / Carpool

Keller Transportation and Gold Line (Martz Group) operate MTA commuter routes from Waldorf, White Plains, and La Plata directly to Washington, D.C. weekday mornings and evenings. Multiple Park & Ride lots in the Waldorf area (US-301 at Smallwood Dr., St. Charles Towne Mall). Charles County is the closest of the three options to D.C. — the strongest choice for daily commuters.
Commuter tip: All three counties connect into the Washington Metro system via bus transfers, meaning community members without a car or who prefer not to drive can still reach most D.C. neighborhoods. The WMATA SmartBenefits program also allows employers to subsidize transit costs tax-free — worth asking any D.C.-area employer about.
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Why Build Together
Financial, practical & human benefits of this community model

Building on shared land — rather than buying separately — puts every design choice in the community's hands and compounds the advantages. Below are the core reasons this model works, organized by what kind of value each delivers.

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Environmentally & Financially Sustainable
Smart material and energy choices that pay for themselves over time and reduce ongoing costs for every household.
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Solar Panels

Installing solar at build time costs significantly less than retrofitting later. A properly sized system (8–12 kW) can eliminate monthly electric bills, and Maryland's net metering policy credits back any excess power. The federal 30% Investment Tax Credit applies, cutting system costs by $8–12K per home.

Estimated savings: $80–150/month per household after payoff
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Tankless Water Heater

Heats water only on demand — no standby energy loss. Lasts 20+ years vs. 10–12 for tank heaters, takes up less space, and never runs cold. Ideal for large or multi-schedule households.

Estimated savings: $100–300/year per unit
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Reverse Osmosis Filtration

Rural well water in Maryland can carry iron, sulfur, or sediment. A built-in RO system can be spec'd into each home at build time — delivering clean water at every tap, eliminating bottled water costs, and protecting appliances for the long term.

Estimated savings: $400–800/year vs. bottled water per household
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Metal Roofing

Metal roofs last 40–70 years vs. 15–20 for asphalt shingles, are highly wind- and fire-resistant, and reflect heat to reduce cooling costs. Installing at build time avoids the cost and disruption of a mid-life reroof — a meaningful long-term savings for every household.

Lasts 2–3× longer than standard shingles · Lower insurance premiums
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Lifestyle
The financial and practical advantages that reshape how each household lives, saves, and plans for the future.
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Build Equity from Day One

Building at today's prices with factory-built homes means the community starts with built-in equity. As Maryland land appreciates, collective net worth grows. Shared infrastructure — one well, one driveway, one land purchase — saves $40–80K vs. building separately.

Shared infrastructure saves: $40,000–80,000
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Airbnb Income While on Vacation

When any household travels, their home can earn on Airbnb or VRBO. The Chesapeake Bay area commands $150–350/night for weekend stays. A single week's rental can offset an entire trip — turning vacations into breaks that pay for themselves.

Potential: $900–2,500 per week per unit listed
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A Direct Path to Financial Independence (FIRE)
FIRE — Financial Independence, Retire Early — is the goal of building enough wealth and reducing expenses enough that paid work becomes optional. Co-housing compresses both sides of the equation at once.
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Lower Cost Basis

At ~$195–254K per household in the low-to-mid scenario — well below comparable suburban housing — less debt means more capital freed up to invest earlier. The gap between what this community costs and what a conventional home costs goes straight to index funds.

Estimated savings vs. conventional suburban purchase: $75–150K per household
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Compressed Monthly Spending

Solar panels, the shared garden, informal childcare between households, shared tools — co-housing compresses monthly burn meaningfully without sacrifice. Lower spending is the other half of every FIRE calculation.

Estimated monthly savings: $500–1,200 per household vs. suburban living
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Passive Income Streams

Airbnb income when traveling, potential future rental income from a reserved additional lot, and the long-term option to sell a parcel if the community's needs change — income streams that require no lifestyle change to access.

Airbnb alone: $900–2,500/week per vacant household
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Elder Care Hedge

Assisted living costs $4,000–8,000/month — a wildcard that derails more FIRE plans than almost anything else. With Evelyne on-site in an accessible home surrounded by family, that variable is largely neutralized for everyone's long-term financial picture.

Potential avoided cost: $48,000–96,000/year in future elder care
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Experimental Space — Room to Build What You Actually Want
Three-plus acres of private land is a canvas. Once the homes are built and the community is established, the remaining land becomes a platform for whatever the community chooses to create next — with no HOA, no shared walls, and no permission needed.
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Outdoor Sauna

A cedar barrel or cabin sauna tucked into the tree line — built for under $5K DIY, a luxury that would cost many times that to access in a suburban context. The kind of thing that gets used every week.

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Workshop / Maker Space

A dedicated shed or structure for woodworking, electronics, 3D printing, fabrication, or any technical side project. Having that space steps from home — rather than rented across town — changes what's possible for household members who build things.

Outdoor Recreation Area

A cleared activity area for basketball, soccer, or a built-in obstacle course gives high-energy kids and adults a place to channel physical movement — on private land, without driving anywhere. For children who need movement built into their daily environment, this can be the infrastructure.

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Natural Swimming Pool

A chemical-free swimming pond filtered by aquatic plants — cooler and cleaner than a chlorine pool, and dramatically more beautiful. A meaningful shared amenity that adds to the land's value and quality of life simultaneously.

Natural Pool · Click to watch
Natural swimming pool
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Community Hot Tub

A shared hot tub creates a year-round gathering place for conversation, relaxation, and recovery. Think informal chatting over wine after the kids go to sleep. This feature is a surprisingly affordable luxury when costs are shared across households.

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Fun Spaces

Create memorable evenings with a spaces that invite family to come together. Imagine an outdoor projector theater showing the family favorites all year round; a simple but well designed fire pit for s'mores and gatherings; lawn games that don't require a screen; and seasonal celebrations that turn into parties with the addition of a few more friends. The land becomes a destination for family time rather than just a place to live.

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Space to Grow Food

Three-plus acres means a shared vegetable garden, fruit trees, and herb beds. Fresh produce for the whole community means increased health benefits — physical as well as mental health — while cutting grocery costs and adding beauty to the landscape.

Estimated value: $200–600/month in produce, seasonally
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Mental Well-Being
The human benefits that no mortgage calculator can capture — and that matter more as the years go on.
Grace Kim TED Talk
Co-housing is increasingly recognized as an antidote to isolation, creating daily opportunities for connection, belonging, and mutual support. Watch architect Grace Kim's TED Talk on how intentional community design can combat loneliness by clicking the thumbnail.
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Ownership Structure
How the three core households hold title together

A multi-member LLC is the most common and practical structure for family co-housing communities like this one. It creates a shared legal entity that can purchase land and contract with builders, while protecting each household's personal assets.

✦ Recommended: Multi-Member LLC

  1. All three core households become members of a Maryland LLC. Membership percentages are defined in the Operating Agreement — the two larger family households would likely hold proportionally larger shares, reflecting their greater financial contributions. The Operating Agreement can also specify how additional households (Geraldine, Jr) may be added later.
  2. File Articles of Organization with the Maryland Department of Assessments and Taxation (~$100 filing fee). This typically takes about a week to process.
  3. Obtain an EIN from the IRS (free, online). Open a shared LLC bank account to handle land purchase, construction disbursements, and ongoing shared expenses.
  4. Draft a detailed Operating Agreement — the single most important document the community will create. It should address: voting rights for major decisions, buy-out procedures, inheritance provisions, dispute resolution, subletting rules, and cost-sharing formulas.
  5. The LLC purchases the land. Each dwelling informally "belongs to" each household, but the land and all structures are legally LLC assets. The Operating Agreement defines each household's exclusive-use rights over their dwelling and immediate surroundings.
  6. File annual reports with Maryland SDAT to keep the LLC in good standing (~$300/yr).

Why an LLC works well here: Liability protection, pass-through taxation, and a flexible written framework for multi-party ownership. One limitation: banks are often hesitant to mortgage LLC-held land without personal guarantees, so the community may need to pay cash, use owner financing, or have individual members take construction loans.

Conceptual site layout · 3-acre parcel · not to scale
Shared Garden Common Clermont-Martin Thornton · 5 members Ormand-Clermont 4 members Evelyne ADA · single-level County road Family home (3BR/2BA) Single-person home Shared spaces

Two alternatives for consideration:

Tenancy in Common (TIC)

Each household holds a defined percentage of the whole parcel directly on the deed — no separate entity required. Simpler to set up and easier to finance, but each owner's share can be forced into sale by a court if a serious dispute arises. A detailed co-ownership agreement is essential.

✓ No annual filings ✓ Easier financing ✗ Partition risk ✗ Less liability protection

Community Land Trust (CLT)

A nonprofit holds the land permanently; each household owns their dwelling and holds a long-term ground lease on the land beneath it. Very stable long-term — no one can be bought out or forced off — but requires significant legal setup and higher upfront costs.

✓ Permanent affordability ✓ Strong community control ✗ Complex to establish ✗ Higher legal costs
Regardless of which structure is chosen, a Maryland real estate attorney should draft the co-ownership or Operating Agreement. Spending $2,000–5,000 on it upfront saves enormous pain later.
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Housing Options
3 dwellings · permanent, quality-built homes for every household

The community will need three dwellings: two larger family homes and one smaller single-occupant home. These paths offer the best combination of quality, customization, and cost for this community — all permanent, all code-compliant, all assets that appreciate over time.

🏭 Modular Home (IRC Code)
All-in mid-range estimate: ~$210–270K · Best for family units
What it is Built in sections in a factory, transported to the lot, and assembled on a permanent foundation. Meets Maryland building code identically to a site-built home. Can be financed with standard mortgages and appreciates in value like a conventional home.
For this community A 3BR/2BA family home (~1,400 sq ft) runs $130–175K for the module, plus $40–80K for foundation, site work, and utility connections — roughly $170–255K total, with a comfortable mid-range near $210K. A smaller 2BR/1BA unit for a single-person household comes in well under $170K all-in.
Maryland builders Excel Homes (Baltimore-area dealer), Impresa Modular, Nationwide Homes. Average price per sq ft: $65–95.
Pros & cons ✓ Permanent, appreciating asset · ✓ Standard financing · ✓ Full Maryland code compliance · ✗ Foundation required · ✗ Site costs add up quickly
🪵 Prefab Kit Home (Barndominium / Panel)
All-in mid-range estimate: ~$290–360K · Most architectural character
What it is Factory-engineered structural panels and components shipped to the site for local assembly. The kit is typically 25–35% of the finished home's total cost — the remainder goes to foundation, utilities, insulation, and interior finishing.
For this community Best for the two larger family homes where aesthetic and customization matter most. Total cost for a finished kit home runs $250–375K all-in depending on finishes, with a comfortable mid-range near $310K. The single-person units are better served by modular or tiny home options.
Builders DC Structures (ships nationally — see spotlight below), Worldwide Steel Buildings, Morton Buildings. The kit is just the structural shell; a local GC handles the finish-out.
Pros & cons ✓ Most architectural character · ✓ Durable and permanent · ✗ Kit is the shell only · ✗ Total cost likely exceeds $200K for family-sized homes
Prefab Spotlight — DC Structures: The McCall
Kit starts at $141,694
Kit specifications
Footprint
24' × 80'
Conditioned sq ft
1,333
Total sq ft
2,424
Bedrooms / Baths
2 BR / 2 BA
Levels
1
Garage
587 sq ft integrated
Kit includes
Douglas fir structural framing Hardie Cedar Mill lap siding & fascia CDX roof sheathing + Hardie soffit panels Andersen 100 Series windows & doors WRB exterior wall protection system Structural blueprints & design documents
Not included in kit
Insulation, drywall, paint, flooring HVAC, plumbing, electrical Foundation & site work Roofing material (shingles or metal panels) Cabinetry, fixtures, appliances
Mid-range finished cost estimate
McCall kit (starting price)$141,694
Foundation & site work$35,000 – $55,000
Roofing (metal panels)$18,000 – $28,000
Insulation (spray foam)$10,000 – $16,000
Drywall & finishing$12,000 – $20,000
Electrical, plumbing, HVAC$45,000 – $75,000
Flooring, cabinets, fixtures$30,000 – $55,000
GC overhead & permits$20,000 – $35,000
All-in mid-range estimate ~$360,000

Range: approximately $310K–$425K depending on finishes, labor rates, and site conditions. The McCall is one example from DC Structures' lineup — similar options include The Pocatello, The Meridian, and The Caldwell at varying sizes and price points.

View the McCall on DC Structures →
🏡 Local Custom Builder
All-in mid-range estimate: ~$280–420K (larger) · ~$210–310K (smaller)
What it is A licensed local general contractor designs and builds each home on-site from the ground up — or finishes out a prefab kit shell — managing subcontractors for foundation, framing, MEP, and finish work. The most traditional path, and the one that offers the most direct relationship between the homeowner and the people doing the work.
For this community A local builder who already knows the county's zoning, permit office, and subcontractor networks is a genuine asset for a multi-home community build. Five homes on a single parcel represent a substantial project — the kind of volume a local builder will prioritize and price competitively. A single GC managing all five homes simultaneously also simplifies coordination across the build.
Spotlight: John Krause Construction Based in Lusby, MD — the heart of Calvert County — John Krause Construction is a leading custom home builder and full-service contractor in Southern Maryland with over 30 years of experience. They serve Calvert, Charles, and St. Mary's counties — exactly the target area for this community's land search. Services include custom home construction, site grading and prep, additions, landscaping, and hardscaping. BBB-accredited with an A rating. Contact: (443) 404-5284 · johnkrauseconstruction.com
Pros & cons ✓ Full customization — every design choice is yours · ✓ Local expertise in permits, zoning, and subcontractors · ✓ Single point of accountability for each build · ✓ Can manage all five homes as one coordinated project · ✗ Longer timeline than factory-built options (12–18 months per home) · ✗ Higher cost per square foot than modular · ✗ More household involvement required during design and build phases
Factor Modular Prefab Kit Local Builder
All-in cost · larger home $210–280K $290–380K $280–420K
All-in cost · smaller home $155–210K $210–270K $210–310K
Build timeline 4–8 months 8–14 months 12–18 months
Design flexibility Moderate — floor plan options within catalog High — interior fully customizable Highest — every choice is yours
Local expertise Low — ships from factory, GC needed locally Low — kit ships nationally, GC finishes out Highest — builder knows county codes & subs
ADA / accessibility Select accessible floor plans available Specify in design — fully achievable Full control — specify anything needed
Best for Fastest timeline, lowest cost Design quality, long-term durability Maximum customization, local relationships

Suggested mix for three households: Three modular homes for each household. For the larger families it would be ~$210–270K each all-in. For Evelyne, the cost would be lower with less square footage. Total estimated housing budget: approximately $530–700K for all three dwellings, before shared site infrastructure. If the two family homes are built as prefab kit homes instead, the housing total rises to approximately $630–920K.

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Schooling
Public school quality in the three recommended counties

School quality varies meaningfully across Maryland's counties. Below is an honest overview of each recommended county, ranked by Niche's 2025 statewide district rankings, with context on what the numbers mean for the children in this community.

Calvert County Public Schools #4 in Maryland

The strongest school district among all affordable rural Maryland options. Well-funded and suburban-rural, with strong teacher retention and test score proficiency well above the state average. Elementary schools across the county are consistently well-regarded. This is the most compelling reason to prioritize Calvert County, even if per-acre land costs are modestly higher than other options.

Queen Anne's County Public Schools #9 in Maryland

A solid Eastern Shore district centered around Centreville. Consistently outperforms the state average, with small class sizes typical of a rural system (~8,000 students total). Well-regarded for community cohesion and extracurricular programs — a good balance of academic quality and land affordability.

Charles County Public Schools #12 in Maryland

Middle of the pack statewide, with significant variance between individual schools. Standout options exist — Dr. James Craik Elementary ranks #1 in the entire county, with a B+ Niche grade and 8/10 GreatSchools rating. For this community's children in Charles County, actively pursuing school-choice transfers to higher-performing schools will be important.

Private school note: All three recommended counties have private school options, most commonly Catholic or Christian affiliated. Private elementary tuition in rural Maryland typically runs $7,000–$12,000 per child per year — a meaningful but manageable addition to household budgets for families where school quality is the deciding factor.

Bottom line: If school quality is a top priority, Calvert County is the clear choice. Queen Anne's County is a strong second with better land availability. Charles County has genuine standout schools but requires more active navigation of school assignments.

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A Day in the Life
What daily life could actually look like on the land

Numbers and logistics only go so far. Here is what a typical summer day might look like for the Roots & Branches community — not aspirational fantasy, but a realistic picture of what proximity and shared land make possible.

A Tuesday in August · Roots & Branches Community · Calvert County, MD

By 7:30, the smell of coffee has drifted across the path between houses — Chantl brews enough for two households most mornings without anyone asking. She chats with Stacey at the small table near the garden for half an hour before the school bus comes. Alex hurries his kids, niece, and nephew to the school bus.

Evelyne wakes up right before noon and by 12:30 she’s drinking tea on her front porch as talks to Alex who is in the garden.

By 4 o'clock the kids are back, and what happens next is hard to explain to someone who grew up differently: they just go outside. No playdate to schedule, no car to drive. Cousins find cousins. Neil, bouncing with chaotic energy, ropes Kameron into something complicated involving a rope and a tree. Kira pulls herself out of her room to sit on Evelyne's porch with her mother, earbuds in phone on her lap, and maybe a sketch book beside her notebook—close enough to feel included, far enough to feel safe.

Dinner is loose and overlapping. Two households cook, everyone ends up eating together. Evelyne is at the table, rosary beads in her lap, her accent coloring stories of Port-au-Prince that the twins half-listen to while reaching for more food. The kids eat fast and disappear. The adults stay too longer to chat about politics, and pop culture.

This is the thing that is hardest to manufacture in any other living arrangement: the unhurried, unscheduled accumulation of time together.

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Independence & Boundaries
How we protect each household's privacy and autonomy

Living near family is one thing. Living with family — even with separate homes — raises real questions about boundaries, privacy, and decision-making. This community is designed to answer those questions in advance, clearly and in writing. The goal is shared land, not shared lives. Proximity is the gift; autonomy is the guarantee.

Your home is yours

Each household's dwelling is their private domain. No one enters another home without an invitation. This is not a rule that needs to be enforced — it's a norm that gets established early and held firmly. Private outdoor space immediately adjacent to each home (porch, patio, yard) belongs to that household as well.

Shared land, defined zones

The Operating Agreement designates which portions of the parcel are common (garden, driveway, fire pit area) and which are each household's exclusive-use zone. Maps are attached to the agreement. No household may use another's exclusive zone without permission.

Evelyne's independence

Evelyne's home is built for her dignity and independence first — not for convenience of others. She decides her own schedule, her own guests, her own routines. Her faith is central to her life; Sunday mornings are hers. Family proximity means help is available when she wants it, never imposed. Her wishes about her care and her space are documented and respected.

Added family space

Should Geraldine or Jr join the community, they would be a full member — not a guest, not an afterthought. Their homes, schedules, and social life would be their own. They would participate in community decisions equally with other households and has the same rights and exit provisions as any member.

Guests & visitors

Each household may have guests without community approval for stays under 14 days. Extended stays (14+ days) are noted to other households as a courtesy. No household may rent their home for short-term rentals without a vote of the full community — to protect the shared environment and everyone's sense of security.

Financial independence

Each household's finances are entirely their own. Shared expenses (land taxes, driveway maintenance, well service, common area upkeep) are divided by a formula agreed in the Operating Agreement. No household is liable for another's personal debts. The LLC's shared bank account holds only community funds.

How we navigate disagreements

  1. Direct conversation first. Most issues between neighbors — including family members — resolve when raised directly and kindly. The expectation is that households bring concerns to each other before escalating.
  2. Full community meeting. If direct conversation doesn't resolve it, any household can call a community meeting. All three households participate. The goal is consensus; majority voting (2 of 3 households) resolves matters that can't reach full agreement.
  3. Designated mediator. The Operating Agreement names a trusted third party (a family member, attorney, or professional mediator) who can be called in at any household's request. Mediation costs are split equally.
  4. Binding arbitration. If mediation fails on a major issue, the Operating Agreement specifies binding arbitration — not litigation. This keeps disputes private, relatively fast, and far less expensive than court.
  5. Buy-out provisions. Any household that ultimately cannot continue in the community has a documented buy-out path — a pre-agreed formula for valuing and transferring their interest. No one is trapped, and no one can be forced out unfairly.
The most important thing: The Operating Agreement is not a sign of distrust — it is a sign of respect. Families who document expectations clearly before moving in together have dramatically better long-term outcomes than those who rely on goodwill alone. Our goodwill is real. The agreement makes it durable.
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Frequently Asked Questions
Honest answers to the questions you're probably already asking
What happens if someone wants to leave?
The Operating Agreement includes a buy-out provision. If a household wants to exit the community, their share is valued by a formula agreed in advance (typically a combination of their original contribution and current appraised land value). The remaining households have right of first refusal to buy that share before it can be offered to an outside party. No one is locked in permanently, and no one can be removed unfairly.
What if someone can't pay their share of expenses one month?
Short-term hardship happens in any family. The Operating Agreement establishes a small community reserve fund (funded by modest monthly contributions from all households) to cover shared expenses during a member's temporary hardship, with an agreed repayment timeline. For extended non-payment, there is a formal process — notice, negotiation, and ultimately the buy-out path if necessary. The goal is always to keep the community whole.
What if Evelyne needs more care as she gets older?
This is exactly why building now matters. Evelyne's home will be ADA-accessible and single-level from day one — designed with her long-term needs in mind. She is still independent, but the structure that protects that independence for years to come must be built now. As her care needs evolve, the community can adapt: a home health aide visiting regularly, modifications to her home, or simply the daily presence of family. Co-housing preserves her independence and dignity far longer than any alternative short of a full care facility — and it keeps her where she belongs, near her children and grandchildren.
What if two households disagree on a major decision — like whether to sell the land?
Major decisions (selling the land, taking on shared debt, significant changes to common areas) require a supermajority vote — 3 of 4 households in agreement. The sale of the entire property requires unanimous consent. This means no single household can force a major change, and the community as a whole has to be substantially aligned before anything fundamental shifts.
What about inheritance — what happens to a household's share when someone passes away?
Each household designates their heirs in the Operating Agreement, and each member's share passes according to their will. Heirs who want to participate in the community may do so; heirs who do not can sell their interest (with right of first refusal going to existing community members). The LLC structure is specifically designed to handle this transition without forcing a sale of the whole property.
How are day-to-day decisions made — like maintaining the shared driveway or garden?
Routine maintenance decisions are handled by a simple rotating stewardship model: each household takes responsibility for a shared area or task for a season, and costs come from the community reserve fund. Larger one-time decisions (resurfacing the driveway, adding a structure to common land) require a community vote. Most day-to-day things just get handled by whoever notices they need handling — that's what living close together actually enables.
How does this affect each household's taxes?
Each household is responsible for their own income taxes. The LLC is a pass-through entity, so any shared income (e.g., rental income if a home is listed on Airbnb) flows through to members proportionally and is reported on each household's personal return. Property taxes are paid by the LLC and split per the Operating Agreement. A Maryland CPA familiar with multi-member LLCs should be consulted before filing the first year — this is not complicated, but it is different from standard homeownership.
What's the realistic timeline from "yes" to moving in?
Assuming community agreement by late summer 2026, a realistic build timeline looks like: land identified and under contract by fall 2026, LLC formed and land purchased by early 2027, permits and site work through mid-2027, homes delivered and finished by late 2027 to early 2028. Modular and manufactured homes compress the timeline significantly versus site-built construction. Eighteen to twenty-four months from commitment to move-in is a reasonable planning horizon.
What if we get there and it's harder than expected to live this close to family?
That's a fair and important question. The honest answer is: it will sometimes be harder than expected. Proximity reveals things about people that distance hides. The community is designed for that reality — with private homes, documented boundaries, a formal dispute process, and buy-out provisions. The goal isn't to eliminate friction; it's to build a structure that can hold through friction and come out stronger on the other side. Families who do this well report that the first year is the adjustment, and that what follows is something most of them describe as the best decision they ever made.
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Budget Summary
Rough all-in estimate for the full community
Item Notes Low Est. High Est.
Land (3–5 acres) Calvert or Queen Anne's County $75,000 $100,000
LLC formation + attorney fees Operating Agreement, filing, EIN $2,500 $6,000
Site infrastructure (shared) Well, septic(s), driveway, electric hookup, clearing $60,000 $120,000
Family Home #1 — Clermont-Martin-Thornton 3BR/2BA modular home, ~1,400 sq ft, all-in $210,000 $360,000
Family Home #2 — Ormand-Clermont 3BR/2BA modular home, ~1,200 sq ft, all-in $200,000 $340,000
Evelyne's Home ADA tiny home on permanent pad, ~400 sq ft, single-level $110,000 $160,000
Permits, inspections, contingency ~10% buffer recommended $66,000 $109,000
Total Community Build Estimate ~$724K ~$1.20M

Divided across three core households, this represents roughly $195–315K per household depending on home type and finish level. The low scenario uses modular homes for family units; the high scenario uses prefab kit homes with premium finishes. Shared infrastructure costs (land, site work, legal) are split proportionally.

Cost breakdown · Mid estimate · all figures approximate
Land (3–5 acres)
$87K
$75K – $100K
Site infrastructure
Well, septic, driveway, clearing
$90K
$60K – $120K
Family Home #1
Clermont-Martin-Thornton · modular
$240K
$210K – $360K
Family Home #2
Ormand-Clermont · modular
$220K
$200K – $340K
Evelyne's Home
ADA tiny home · single-level
$135K
$110K – $160K
Permits, legal & contingency
$82K
$66K – $109K
Total Community Estimate ~$724K – $1.20M

This land. These homes.
This family.

We have done the research, run the numbers, and thought through the hard questions. What's left is the decision to begin.